I dont get why people hate mary for “leaving”like she comes back to life and her kids who were not even old enough for school yet are these sad grown men who are older than her and everything is different and she finds out hunting is a little different but still works the same so she just throws herself back into that life and she moves out of the bunker because she knows shes not the idealized figure they think she is and she cant be that person and she has this huge disconnect in seeing these men older than her as her toddler and baby and she stays in touch because they still are important to her she doesnt leave their lives and her working with the men of letters is kinda shitty lazy writing but also havent sam and dean both teamed up and worked with people they shouldnt have and people that had hurt the other or done bad things but everyone trys to hold mary to some higher standard i just dont get it